why Ladies Expose their nakedness on social media: Rasak Ayanlakin Democrat Speaks

According to Sigmund Freud “Everything a woman does; is derived from a man penis envy” (end of quote). Freud was of the opinion that at childhood stage, we gain much pleasure in doing two things – we love to be aggressive – we madly fall in love with sexual pleasure as well.

It would reach a stage, a male child would see his father’s existence as a domestic threat, and would wish his father die; believing the sudden death of his father would grant him much freedom, to act like a husband to his mother.

This is what Sigmund Freud referred to as Oedipus complex. Oedipus, according to a Greek story, is a young man who killed his father and married his mother.

I know of a woman who says she wonders why her male children develop extreme likeness for her – her female children develop supreme love for their father. I explained the psychoanalytic theory of Sigmund Freud to quench her thirst of inquisitive curiosity, and she wowed.

Sometimes, we men find ourselves in a room, exchanging pleasantries, playing games or engage one another in intellectual discussions. Experience has it that, the social tempo changes immediately a strange woman is ushered into such room.

With the sudden appearance of a gorgeously looking lady, some of us would start flying polo of our shirts, adjusting our roughed trousers, perhaps to display how more civilized or socially exposed we are, or how best or perfect we can be her partner.

Some of us would start pulling down our polo - to show how morally sound and responsibly mannered we are. We don’t want to be called a good-for-nothing-thug, believing that looking more responsible than other men would make one the most preferable or convince her to fall in love.

As a social media commentator, I think this is a subject matter I have never commented on before, perhaps because of its sensitiveness.

I love to see females posting pictures on social media; in fact, it has always remained an undiminishing pleasure whilst I am browsing over the internet to pause, watch their fascinated smiles, like and sometimes drop some golden compliments in their comment boxes, depending on the level of elegance.

I love to see them showing their beauties through pictures like professional models, and celebrated fashioners; but this must come with all politeness, modesties and cultured mannerisms.

Having being blessed with three blood sisters - two elders (married) and a younger sister (unmarried), beautiful ones - I understand quite well how ladies feel when you tell them how gorgeous they look in their new dresses, how they appear elegant in their pictures.

How her golden smiles kill, how she walks like a professional model whilst she swings her hips from side to side, how she walks down the street and her beautiful walking steps cause you emotional disaster, how she sounds angelic in her utterances.

Research has it that an average social media user is psychologically depressed, seriously overwhelmed with sadness – when she posts and gets no likes or comments; sometimes comments or likes that negate her expectation. An average human is biologically programmed not to be ignored, snubbed or neglected.

This, to the best of my knowledge, is one of the few reasons ladies display their nakedness on social media; we must not desert the truth; the simple truth is not farfetched - it is not worth it”.

Meet me in the second part.